Confidence is contagious. It is also magnetic. A life lived with confidence is a life that is maximized and lived to the fullest. The secret about confidence is that it doesn’t depend on circumstantial things like your physique, your clothes, or your position in life. Confidence is a choice. It is a decision you can make every day to be fully you, for it is when we are fully ourselves that our smiles shine brighter, our eyes sparkle and we connect with others in ways in which we never imagined possible.
If you want to dance on couches, do it. If you want to skip through the streets, start leaping; and if you want to experience the best version of life possible,then embrace your flaws and your goofiness and start swaying to your own groove.
Being in NYC with possibly two of the most confident girls I know revived this spirit of confidence in me. If you laugh so hard that you pee your pants, then laugh some more, and I promise, others will join in. When you start seeing the magnetizing power of your confidence, you will never want to stray to self-consciousness again.