Trish Blackwell

Coaching your confidence and courage to that you finish what you start and contribute to the world in a way that matters.

#549: Self-Kindness for the Self-Critical Person

By on in Podcasts, Self-Confidence and Happiness, Self-Doubt and Belief, Self-Kindness, Self-Sabotage and Habit Change, Social Anxiety and People Pleasing, The Confidence Podcast

In this episode, we’re discussing the important topic of self-kindness, specifically for those who tend to be self-critical. It’s all too easy to fall into the trap of negative self-talk and self-blame, but learning to treat ourselves with kindness and compassion is key to building a healthy self-image and improving our mental well-being. We’ll explore practical strategies for cultivating self-kindness, including mindfulness, reframing negative thoughts, and practicing self-care. Whether you struggle with low self-esteem, imposter syndrome, or just the occasional bout of self-criticism, join us as we explore the transformative power of self-kindness and learn to treat ourselves with the love and respect we deserve.

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#548: Staying Confident When Self-Doubt is Present

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Self-doubt isn’t a problem, unless you make it one. . If allowed to run wild, self-doubt can be a powerful force that holds us back from pursuing our goals and living our best lives. But with the right mindset and tools, we can learn to navigate self-doubt and maintain our confidence in the face of uncertainty. In this episode you’ll get practical tips for managing self-doubt, including reframing negative thoughts, building a support system, and setting achievable goals so you can create an extraordinary life.

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#547: Self-Talk that Changed My Life

By on in Self-Confidence and Happiness, Self-Doubt and Belief, Self-Sabotage and Habit Change, Social Anxiety and People Pleasing, The Confidence Podcast

It’s time to master the transformative power of self-talk and sharing strategies for shifting your self-talk to change your life. The way we talk to ourselves can have a profound impact on our mindset, emotions, and behavior. Negative self-talk can lead to feelings of anxiety, self-doubt, and even depression, while positive self-talk can boost our confidence, resilience, and overall well-being. We’ll explore practical techniques for changing your self-talk, including mindfulness, visualization, and cognitive restructuring. These are the shifts in self-talk that changed my life, and can change yours.

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#546: Confidence Immersion and Faking It Till You Make It

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In this episode, we explore the concept of “confidence immersion” and the power of “faking it until you make it” as a way to increase both our perceived and actual confidence levels. We discuss the science behind this approach and share personal anecdotes and expert insights on how to adopt a confident mindset and behavior, even in situations where we may not feel entirely sure of ourselves. From adopting confident body language to practicing positive self-talk, we provide practical tips for building confidence and projecting a confident image to those around us.

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545: Compare & Despair Cycle

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In this episode, we tackle the topic of “compare and despair” and the negative impact that comparing ourselves to others can have on our mental health and well-being. We delve into the reasons why we engage in this behavior and provide practical strategies for breaking the cycle and cultivating a more positive and self-compassionate mindset. You’ll get actionable tips for overcoming the urge to compare yourself to others and finding greater contentment in your own life.
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#541: Not Ready Syndrome

By on in Anxiety and Stress Management, Mind, Mindset and Thought Work, Podcasts, Self-Doubt and Belief, Self-Sabotage and Habit Change, Social Anxiety and People Pleasing, The Confidence Podcast

Too many people put off their goals and their dream lives with the seemingly innocuous thought  of “I’m not quite ready to start yet.” Not Ready Syndrome is a sneaky way that you will stay stuck, even though you feel like you’re “working” on your goal. Get out of the stagnation station of feeling “not ready” or “not good enough” and avoid the weight of impostor syndrome that comes with both by applying the tools of this episode to help you feel confident before you’re “ready”. This will help you become a massive action taker right away.

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#539: Stop Trying to Prove Yourself – You’re Good Enough Already

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Constantly trying to prove oneself can lead to feelings of inadequacy and burnout. It’s important to recognize and appreciate one’s abilities and accomplishments, rather than always seeking validation from others. Focusing on self-improvement and growth can be a healthier approach than striving for external validation. Remember that you are already enough and worthy, and that your worth is not determined by external factors or validation from others. We got all of this and more in this podcast episode!

Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish’s free masterclass to Stop Caring What People Think at www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring

#538: How to be a Happier and More Successful Person

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You can be happier and feel more successful today, right away, right now. This podcast episode will give you an identity boost – and some power thoughts – to help you step more fully into a confident, happy, successful mindset where you feel good based on your thoughts, not on your circumstances. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants more joy and to feel better about where they are on the journey of their goals.

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#537: The Voice in Your Head – How to Make it Powerful and Positive

By on in Mind, Mindset and Thought Work, Podcasts, Self-Confidence and Happiness, Self-Doubt and Belief, Self-Sabotage and Habit Change, Social Anxiety and People Pleasing, The Confidence Podcast

When you change the voice in your head, you change the course of your life. Your thoughts create your life. This episode will help you know how to know what thoughts you are thinking, how to eliminate the ones that aren’t serving you, and how to think powerful thoughts on purpose to create a life you want. If you’ve ever wanted to improve the voice in your head and your internal self-talk, this episode is for you.

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536: Why It Doesn’t Matter What People Think – 10 Reasons & How to Believe Them

By on in Anxiety and Stress Management, Mind, Mindset and Thought Work, Podcasts, Self-Doubt and Belief, Self-Sabotage and Habit Change, Social Anxiety and People Pleasing, The Confidence Podcast

It’s critical to learn the skill of knowing how to stop caring what people think, especially in the modern, constantly connected world that we live in. Everyone experiences fear and anxiety over being judged by others, but there are ways to overcome it. By following the 10 principles discussed in this episode and practically applying them to our lives, we can become more comfortable with ourselves and be more confident and independent in our pursuits! Most importantly, we can stop living in constant fear of what others will think and instead focus on living life according to our own principles. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/536