Podcast #507

 

HOW TO BE A HAPPIER PERSON

Everyone wants to be happy, but not everyone knows how to be happy, and how accessible happiness is to anyone, no matter your circumstances. People are sadder and sicker than ever before, but it doesn’t have to be that way for you. Learn some easy, free and simple methods that you can apply to your life right now that will increase your happiness and make your life feel more vibrant, fulfilling and happy. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/507

 

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we’re talking about: 

• How to be happy and feel like a happier person
• Why happiness will create more success and opportunity in your life
• The secret habits of happiness to apply to your life daily
• Being happy beyond your circumstances
• How to stay happy around unhappy or toxic people

 

REVIEW OF THE WEEK:

“A blessing” – SuperTeacher!

Trish, thank you so much for your blessed knowledge and wisdom in the subject of confidence. You aare such a blessing and give me so much strength! 

 

ANNOUNCEMENT:

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LESS STRESS, MORE SUCCESS 

Stress blocks happiness. It limits belief. It creates fertile soil for fear.

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• Day 1: Understanding the Thoughts Behind Your Stress
• Day 2: Talking Back to Your Stress Effectively
• Day 3: Reducing Your Stress Load with Strategic Habits
• Day 4: Increasing Your Self-Concept to Decrease Stress
• Day 5: Replacing Stress with Happiness and Flow (and therefore more success)

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HOW TO BE A HAPPIER PERSON

Know that you have control over your happiness.

Play around with, and understand how you express happiness.

Have happiness habits. 

Be intentional about the inputs in your life

Surround yourself with people who are happy.

Take responsibility – happiness is an inside job, not an outside one.

HAPPINESS – EXTERNAL CIRCUMSTANCES

Reduce toxic load of information

Separate circumstances from happiness – be wary of statements like “when I am_____, then I will be happy”

Minimize influence of toxic people 

 

HAPPINESS – INTERNAL CIRCUMSTANCES

Do the work on your mental management

Do the work of emotional maturation and learn how to feel your feelings

Do the work of gratitude and learning presence

Do the work of fighting against the 4 C’s of Negativity

 

HAPPINESS – ACTIONABLE THINGS TO DO

Happiness Habits

Focusing your attention and constant redirection / parenting your brain

Create more adventure in your life

Take more risks

Challenge the status quo you’ve accepted

Create financial freedom for yourself

Reclaim your voice

Help others

 

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LISTENER OF THE EPISODE

TRISH. Wow! You changed my life in the matter of one a week! I have tried what felt like everything. Every podcast and yours has me hooked. I never thought I would be the person who would listen to a podcast but here I am listening to your podcast everyday sometimes the same episode because they’re so amazing! 

It feels like the therapy that I never got that I needed. 

I’m planning on taking your college of confidence course this year! 

Thank you for your christlike spirit!

-Trinity