Friendships matter, but in a pandemic and post-pandemic world, we are more disconnected than ever. If you’ve ever wondered how many friends you should have, how to have better friendships or how to create life-long friends with confidence, then this coaching podcast is for you. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/437
In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we’re talking about:
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What feeling lonely and disconnected does to us:
Resources mentioned on loneliness:
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-How many do you need and how many should you have?
-How to deal with conflict within friendships or friend groups?
-How to feel known and understand when you feel disconnected?
-How to be a good friend and find good friends?
-How to have confidence in your future friendships?
-How to heal from past hurts friendships have caused?
-How to know which friendships are toxic for you?
Friends for a season, friends for a reason, friends for life.
Other questions that are very common:
Does longing for more friends make me a loser?
Why do I attract selfish friends?
How come everyone else seems to have a “group” and I don’t?
Why do I feel so socially awkward all the time?
Is it possible to find friends who accept you for who you are?
REFRAMING YOUR GIFT OF FRIENDSHIP
What kind of friend are you?
What kind of friend do you really want to be?
There’s always a positive gift that you bring.
It’s your job to find it. To find it though, you have to stop comparing your relationships to that of others. And remember, the more flashy people are about their relationships, the more likely it is that they are compensating for something. Don’t assume that people have it all together just because their social media makes it look like they do. You can be surrounded by a room of friends and feel completely alone. That’s why the right friends matter.
(Example: I was a floater, and because of that, I felt only partially connected to a lot of people. I thought I was flawed and isolated, but rather I am gifted at connecting, making people feel understood and being part of in multiple groups.)
How Many Friends Should You Have?
It’s like asking how much sex should you have?
What is the key to making good friendships?
You can learn how to make your brain work for you, not against you. And that’s exactly what I’ll be teaching in my upcoming mastermind, Done with Numb.
Who is Done with Numb for?
You do more than most people but you never feel like you’re doing enough.
You always feel like you should be doing more, but there’s not enough time.
You are told by others that you’re great, but you still see where you need to improve.
You know you have something great to give the world, but you just don’t know where to start.
Break the chains of decade-long patterns and redesign your life’s potential.
The Done with Numb Coaching Progression Includes:
We’ll go deep into understanding your triggers, your habits, and your thought patterns, deconstructing them completely.
Then, on fresh foundation, we will reconstruct your cognitive baseline and belief systems.
This will give you the power to rewire how you see yourself, how you engage in life, and how you thrive on a day-to-day basis.
You have helped me so much! I love you. I cannot start my day without your podcast. Please never stop doing what you do. Trish you saved me. I wish you all the best in life so much love for you and what you do.