PODCAST #384:GETTING THE RIGHT PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU
In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we’re chatting about:
Getting the right people to like you is a result of learning how to stop caring what people think. This podcast episode will teach you how to let go of caring what people think about you. You’ll also learn how to find and create the right friend group for yourself. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/384
- How to get the right people to like you and how to
- The two major types of people and how to distinguish between them
- A challenge to help you let go of caring too much
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GETTING THE RIGHT PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU
Well, we can’t control people’s opinions of us, but we can control whose opinions we esteem and who we spend the most time with.
How are you supposed to confidently make good friends with good people?
How do you break the cycle of trying too hard to get people to like you?
How do you learn to figure out who will be life-giving or soul-sucking in your life?
It all comes down to learning how to assess what type of person someone is. Or, more accurately, what season of growth they are in in their lives. We are humanly capable of being both types, but to be the type that builds great relationships and thinks beyond themselves, we have to do some soul growth and work.
COVID-19 REVEALED TWO TYPES OF PEOPLE:
- Self-focused people.
- Other-focused people.
This is non-age-discriminate, non-gender based and not socio-economically tied.
Interested in self-promotion, in getting attention, in getting praise
Thinks about proving themselves and wanting to stand out from the crowd
Driven to be better than others because they want to be special or famous and noticed
Mindset of scarcity and competition – always thinking about what’s next
Interested in making a difference, in having authority, in living out their purpose
Thinks about how they are loved and how to share that with others
Driven to have influence over others because they want to make a positive difference
Mindset of abundance and collaboration – working to be present and grateful
THE “THEY’RE ALLOWED TO NOT LIKE ME” & GETTING THE RIGHT PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU CHALLENGE
- Write out the names of 3 people who you worry might not like you
- Then write out what it would really mean if they didn’t?
- Ask yourself if you even really like them, and why their opinion of you matters.
- Be honest – does their opinion of you challenge your overall happiness or life?
- Repeat out loud: people are allowed to not like me.
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