Podcast #341:

THE MINDSET THAT IS REALLY KEEPING YOU STUCK, AND HOW TO CHANGE IT 

Your mindset is the narrator of your story and will determine the outcome and impact of your life. Change your mindset, change your life. 

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we’re chatting about: 

• How a mindset keeps you stuck and how to make a mindset change
• Which one is the most dangerous?
• The 5 most important steps to take to start thinking differently

SPONSOR NOTE: 

MY FREE MASTERCLASS ON CONFIDENCE. 

Here’s what’s different:

• It’s short and sweet. (30-minutes!)
• It shows you how to get your next breakthrough. (Um, amen, right?!)
• It’s is free of any sound/tech issues. (Hallelujah!)

And since I know you’re all about your personal growth and your next breakthrough right now, you gotta jump into this!

Grab a spot, we have a session with some seats still open today! Go to www.trishblackwell.com/webinar and register. I’ll send you a free workbook to go along wiht the masterclass, so check your email as soon as you register … this is a POWER-PACKED PUNCH to your confidence.

I’m convinced that this is the start of your next breakthrough.

REVIEW OF THE WEEK: 

Shey11112222

“One of the most influential podcasts on the airwaves” – 5 Stars

It took me a long time to do this as I’ve been an active listener for almost a year but I have to say this. Trish Blackwell is one of the reasons I was able to take accountability and grab a hold on my life. Life can be so chaotic and unpacking all the layers can become so overwhelming. Having Trish’s podcast is like having a therapist at the touch of a finger. No matter what you might be dealing with she has enough content for you to align with whatever it is you’re dealing with. She has taught me so much about the importance of honoring your process and taking action with faith as your warranty. This does not necessarily mean “god” but more trusting that what is beyond you and your control with aligning with what you’re trying to accomplish. Trish Blackwell is the reason why I stepped up and created my own podcast Vitamins for Breakfast, aiming to connect people through real-life conversation. Trish always expresses her real-life experiences and how she is using them to be a light to others. Knowing this, I decided to create a podcast that gathers people of all walks of life and allows them to use the bumps in their journey to serve a lesson for others. This is a concept that was born from me listening to Trish EVER.SINGLE. DAY. Now that I have created and launched my podcast I sit back overwhelmed with how far I’ve come and I have to come on here and honestly say Trish is a big part of this accomplishment. Trish, thank you so much for choosing this to be your purpose, God makes no mistakes and I’m sincerely and forever grateful.

HOW A MINDSET KEEPS YOU STUCK:

Your mindset is either a key or a lock to your future.

Show me a mindset and I will be able to see a measurement of how far that person is capable of going or able to go.

Our minds create the atmosphere in which we live and narrate the story of our lives.

Which “mindset team” will you play for?

Powerful mindset teams:

Limited or Limitless

Pouting or Praising

Grumbling or Grateful

Victim or Victorious

Complaining or courageous

WHICH MINDSET IS THE MOST DANGEROUS FOR SUCCESS?

The “I am not doing enough” mindset.

It makes you feel always behind and constantly overwhelmed.

It keeps you from having joy, being present, or successfully thriving wherever you are.

It drives comparison and scarcity deep into your brain.

It robs you from any chance to consistently progress towards what you want (because deems you incapable, shame-filled and busy)

Are you willing and ready to give up the hold you have on this mindset?

Going into recovery will feel –

vulnerable, scary, weird, wrong, unnatural, radical

What do you have to lose?

5 IMPORTANT STEPS TO CHANGE HOW YOU THINK:

1. Identify and take ownership of the thought or mindset.
2. Surrender your victim association with it
3. Get on the right mindset team
4. Show up for the team – do the work, get uncomfortable, have a coach
5. Rinse, Repeat and Reevaluate

ANNOUNCEMENTS:  FINAL OFFER!!!! 

School is starting back up – Summer is coming to a close … it’s time to shed the things holding you back and to lean into what you anticipate is waiting you in the future.

You’re busy getting everyone else ready for the Fall, but what about you?

Well, I’ve got you covered. 

Current members in the College of Confidence, along with any new enrolling members who join the COC between today and August 31st will receive over $500 in FREEBIES to help you prepare to make the last few months of this year the best months with the most breakthroughs.  I’m calling this my Habit Reset Bundle

Go to www.collegeofconfidence.com to enroll and get the Habit Reset Bundle which includes:

Back to Basics High-Level Habit Mastery Coaching Session – $300 Value

-Bring your biggest goal

-Share your current hurdles

-We’ll identify 3 specific habits you need to prioritize to create change

Self-Limiting Habit Breakthrough Process – $97 Value

-Identify the thoughts that hold you captive

-Start the process of rewriting those thoughts

-Rewire the brain’s belief of what is possible for you

When we believe we can do something, our habits reflect that. Our habits are merely a reflection of what is in our hearts.

The Confidence Acceleration Bundle – $97 Value 

-Quick hit of a confidence boost to create momentum

-Full coaching on the stages of confidence

-Instant wins to drive more positive, automated habit behavior

LISTENER OF THE EPISODE: 

Thank you for your Confidence Master class today. I am a beginning coach (as in, haven’t had one paying client yet but have been naturally coaching others my entire life) I struggle with turning this into income – but have realized that part of that struggle is really because I’ve been too scattered, not focused on who I am or who He created me to be. Taking your class today gave me confidence because I see I’m not as “low confidence” as I thought I was your break down of the steps and stages showed me that I’m clearly in step 4…. step 5 is the hurdle in front of me. But, I’m here because of the glory of God. As I lean into Him, He’s leaning into me and the growth is happening! Thank you for putting it into recognizable steps!!! May God bless you as you continue your work. Thank you for giving of yourself so that myself and others could reap some of your wisdom!

~Althea Sanders