In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we’re chatting about:
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This is my little contribution to your 1000 reviews goal. Thanks for all the work you put into sharing your thoughts with us. Whenever I’m feeling down or in doubt of myself this podcast comes to the rescue, helping me to find peace and joy. I’m not religious, but even those episodes which are lighten my heart.
I just revamped the How to Have Confidence Masterclass and made it even better than it was originally.
Yeah, I agree!
Here’s what’s different:
And since I know you’re all about your personal growth and your next breakthrough right now, you gotta jump into this!
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I’m convinced that this is the start of your next breakthrough.
A refusal to accept any standard short of perfection.
In psychology, perfectionism is a personality trait characterized by “a person’s striving for flawlessness and setting excessively high performance standards, accompanied by overly critical self-evaluations and concerns regarding others’ evaluations.” (https://personalexcellence.co/blog/perfectionism/)
Moving finish line.
Perfectionism is a manifestation of comparison.
Extremely high standards
Being extremely hard on oneself
Excessive negativity or self-pressure
Refusal to start unless absolutely prepared
The character of inflexibility, control and judgment
It’s all about the end result
Moving finish line of standards
Success is never enough
You’re never doing enough
Hyper-critical of mistakes and details that others don’t even notice
Fear of failure – lack of desire to start / avoidance
Self-critical and low self-esteem
Frequent fear of disapproval
High level of anxiety
I’m currently in recovery, a recovering perfectionist
Attempt to control my life and plan my future
Expressed lack of trust in God’s goodness
Warped understanding of love and why I was loved – for what I do instead of for who I am
Therapy helped me pursue the land of grey and the idea of excellence
I used to take great pride in being a perfectionism – it was a crutch for me, a crippling one.
At its core, perfectionism believes that one’s worth is associated with one’s performance and ability to be as close to perfect as possible. Perfectionism is, therefore, a belief that you are valuable based on what you do, not upon who you are.
Do you love the people in your life because of who they are or because of what they do?
It robs you of your identity as a human
It pulls you out of the love of a God who is filled with grace and mercy
It puts you into a constant state of competition
It convinces you to not start or that you’re not enough or ready
It focuses your attention on what you are doing wrong instead of what you are doing right
It traps you into a limited / set mindset instead freeing you into a growth mindset
It creates a mentality saturated with judgment and criticism
It establishes a baseline of negativity
It suffocates freedom, peace, presence and joy because it always feels pressure
It prevents you from thriving in the flow and stepping into your calling
It separates you from God
You can’t think your way into being more confident, you have to act your way into it (meaning, take action on whatever it is that you are overthinking)!
So, don’t “think” about clicking on these links or about taking my new webinar … do it! Here’s the link to the webinar registration, it’s the best place to start >>> www.trishblackwell.com/webinar
Trish! You are amazing! You ahve made such an impact in my life and whenever I need you most … you know exactly what to say to help me take action and keep pushing forward! Thank you for what you do You truly have a alling for this! I”m so thankful that I came across your podcast. I tell everyone about it.