HOW TO INSPIRE AND LEAD WITHOUT CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK

EPISODE #278

In this episode of#TheConfidencePodcastwe are chatting about:

• The mindset secrets around rising up to your dreams without feeling held back or judged by those who aren’t as ambitious as you are
• How to take on your highest form of leadership and inspiring others while knowing how to meet people where they’re at and encourage them to do the same (and let’s be honest, how to deal with the haters and with jealousy)
• My top 10 personal strategies I use to not care what people think

As always, a quick hello to all of my Keep the Faith listeners, thanks for being a part of this extended community of contagious encouragement.

SPONSORSHIP NOTE:

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MINDSET SECRETS TO RISING UP FOR YOUR DREAMS

I don’t have to feel bad for my ambition.

I don’t need to explain why I am motivated.

I don’t have to excuse myself for wanting more or for thinking big.

I don’t have to apologize for changing.

I don’t have to feel bad for high standards or my different interests.

Remember, though it may feel like it, you are not alone.

You are a leader, and you need to put yourself around other people who are go-getters.

Community is so important.

Masterminds are key.

Coaches will connect you.

HOW TO BE YOUR BEST (WHEN PEOPLE AROUND YOU JUST DON’T CARE)

• Do your own growth for you.
• Be patient with meeting people where they’re at – and remember, you weren’t always where you’re at either; this can be frustrating, but there’s a lesson in it for you, always!
• Get used to being different – and be okay with being you.
• Explore being you! (Practice You Journal)
• Know that it’s okay to make enemies … always lead with kindness, always show up, always build others up and offer to help … live in such a way that no one can point a finger of blame to you. Be okay with people not liking you because it’s more about them than it is about you. When you shine bright, it shines light to those who aren’t doing much with their lives.

TOP FIVE STRATEGIES I USE TO NOT CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK:

1. Gratitude Grounding
2. “Just Be Trish” Mantra
3. Chill Out Mantra: ‘Nobody Cares”
4. Purpose Compass (Remind myself why what I am doing matters)
5. Permission to Be Different

ANNOUNCEMENTS:

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LISTENER OF THE EPISODE:

Callye Alvarado

www.sweetsugarbelle.com