HOW TO STOP GETTING IN YOUR OWN WAY
PODCAST #261

In this week’s episode of #TheConfidencePodcast we’re chatting about:

• What makes us get in our own way
• How to stop getting in our own ways
• Why using “love” can be a solution to help you move past what’s holding you back

As always, a quick hello to all of my Keep the Faith listeners, thanks for being a part of this extended community of contagious encouragement.

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WHAT MAKES US GET IN OUR OWN WAY?

Fear of success.
Fear of being too powerful.
Fear of having to face your real problems.
Fear of the unknown.
Fear of jealousy of others
Fear of not mattering
Fear that we don’t matter.

You matter – and sometimes I think we really get in our way when we convince ourselves that our voice isn’t heard or worth hearing – it silences us and we retreat. We hid. We come up with excuses. We blame circumstances.

Keep your promises to yourself (episode #258)

HOW DO WE STOP GETTING IN OUR OWN WAY?

See ourselves differently.
See others differently (not comparing, not in competition, but in collaboration)
See our potential differently.
See our timeline for success differently.
See forgiveness differently.
See “failure” differently.
See what we want differently (very clearly)
See our progress differently (see how far we’ve come, acknowledge and celebrate)

WHY USING “LOVE” CAN MOVE YOU PAST THE PLACE OF BEING STUCK

Love yourself enough to create a plan
Love yourself enough to stretch yourself
Love yourself enough to stick to your promises
Love yourself enough to give yourself to the world (it needs you)
Love yourself enough to take ownership of what you can.
Love yourself enough to get a coach.
Love yourself enough to get accountability.
Love yourself enough to really believe you can succeed.
Love yourself enough to work at replacing bad old habits.

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LISTENER OF THE EPISODE

Thank you for writing the book “Insecurity Detox”. I have never read a book that has given me so much encouragement and great ideas to incorporate in my life. May God richly bless you as you continue to encourage us through your FB posts and daily emails. – (FB MSG) – Kimberely DeFrain