In this episode of Confidence on the Go we’re getting real about:
- 13 ways to literally practice patience
- One key thought pattern to break in order to increase your natural patience
- 3 tools to keep in mind when being patient with others
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QUOTES ON PATIENCE:
Patience in not simply the ability to wait – it’s how we behave while we’re waiting. –Joyce Meyer
Patience and diligence, like faith, remove mountains.
Patience in necessary, and one cannot reap immediately where one has sown. –Soren Kierkegaard
Anytime you feel impatience arising within you, look at it as an opportunity to practice patience and to be stronger because of it.
PATIENCE IN SEASONS
I have struggled with patience in so many ways, some of which are:
-in waiting for my mom as a kid (embarrassed as I waited for her after lifeguarding … the real problem wasn’t impatience, it was fear of what others thought)
-in waiting to meet my husband (my brother and all my friends got married at 22 … and I found myself single at 27, resigned myself to never meeting anyone)
-in waiting for prayers to be answered in regards to things happening in my family
-in waiting for my dreams to work out as I built my platform and my writing reach (waiting on a book deal, building social media, resisting the temptation to compare yourself to others)
-in my own healing and personal growth – wanting to be further along than I was at the time
-in my pregnancy, oh my gosh, right?
THE PRACTICE OF PATIENCE
- Write about it.
- Talk about it.
- Actively embrace a challenge where you practice it.
- Track your small wins.
- Let someone go before you in line.
- Engage your breathing intentionally.
- Open more time in your day – create time abundance.
- Remind yourself that your dream will unfold as it is supposed to.
- Celebrate your growth milestones and how far you have come.
- Trust that the things you are waiting for will happen – proclaim that.
- Keep showing up fully in life, every day.
- Stop using the phrase “I’m so busy”
- Stay in your own lane and don’t compare yourself to others – be in your life and in the present.
THE PATTERN TO BREAK TO INCREASE YOUR PATIENCE
Comparison takes you away from the present, and patience only exists in the present.
Comparison convinces you that others have it better than you, causing you to feel unsettled and inpatient with where you are at.
BEING PATIENT WITH OTHERS
- Remember that not everyone is working on self-awareness and growth the way you are, let them make decisions and actions in their own time.
- Honor timelines and timeliness – and tell others that you value that – but then understand that some people still prescribe to their “busy” lives and don’t realize that they have the power to change that. Be patient with them.
- Focus on being in the present – if it isn’t going to matter in five years, don’t waste more than five minutes on it.
The essence of this 7-day Quick Confidence Boost is to reset your thinking and the power of your own self-actualization by giving you the tools and steps you need, in just three minutes per day to choose confidence. Confidence is a choice, and with the Quick Confidence Boost, you’ll learn that there are seven layers to that choice and to making it more automated for yourself so that you start living life without self-doubt, any nagging insecurities and with full surety in having the freedom to be yourself.
Over a period of seven days, you will receive one email per day from me. Each email will have a quick, three minute video with three summary points and two questions-of-the-day for you to use in your own reflections, meditations, journaling or prayer. Make it a priority to watch the videos – even when it doesn’t feel like it, you always have three minutes in your day, and part of prioritizing your own personal growth is a subconscious message you are sending to yourself that you do have more choice and control in life that you previously thought. You run your day, you run your thoughts, you run your confidence – you can do this!
I’m excited to get started with you – and, if for any reason, you have issues receiving any of the videos, don’t hesitate to reach out and let me know immediately by emailing me directly at email@example.com. I am here to serve you as your confidence coach because I know that, equipped with confidence, and a confidence boost of this nature, you can do anything in life and that you will be unstoppable as you courageous pursue contributing to this world in a way that matters!
Choose your mindset
Choose to be courageous
Choose positive body language
Choose kindness and love
Choose community – join us.
COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE
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LISTENER OF THE EPISODE:
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Sometimes putting things in your own handwriting really helps to have it sink in.
I’m reading such a good book and these are some of my notes from it!
It’s called Insecurity Detox and at first I didn’t think that it would be the right book for me because I feel like I’m confident in my abilities and comfortable with who I am.
Truth is, we ALL have insecurities of some sort – whether we want to admit it or not. So, thank you to Trish Blackwell for writing this amazing book!